WHAT IS ANXIETY

Anxiety stems from a normal reaction to all sorts of difficult or dangerous situations. This defence reaction is the same as all other animals have. It helps us deal with situations that threaten us. If you were on a battlefield it would prepare you for the fight. If a large dog were chancing you it would help you run. It is sometimes referred to as fight/flight. It is also called the emergence reaction or arousal. The energy boost that the body gets from arousal helps you stay awake and alert.

Unfortunately, arousal can occur without real danger. Sometimes it can also be out of proportion to the threat. This can lead to difficulties such as anxiety, worry, phobia or trauma. It can become very distressing, causing major difficulties. One in ten people have to consult their doctor at some time because of anxiety, others also from the effects of worry.

 An Anxiety Attack.

To understand more about anxiety it can best be divided into three parts: Physical, Mental and Behaviour.

The signs:

 Breathing

When anxious, we feel we need to breathe harder, with quick deep breaths through the chest. This helps supply more oxygen to the muscles for exercise. This is fine during heavy exercise, but can cause problems if we get anxious.

Adrenaline rush

Anxiety makes the body produce adrenaline which: increases the strength and speed of the heart beat to pump more blood around the body for exercise; increases tension in the muscles, preparing them to spring into action; increases sweating; also dry mouth, blurred vision; difficulty swallowing; feeling sick; wanting to get to the toilet.

 All this is very tiring and often leaves people feeling exhausted.

 Mental Anxiety

When we get anxious, our minds can be fill of all sorts of worrying thoughts and feelings. It is often hard to concentrate and think straight. Some of the thoughts are like:

 "I can't cope"

"I'll make a fool of myself, others will notice"

"I'll faint in front of them" 'I'll be sick in front of them"

"I'm going mad" "I'm going to lose control" "I'm having a heart attack"

"I'm dying" "I can't breathe" "I've a brain tumour"

If any apply to you, please tick them and write any others you get in the space above.

 If the symptoms get so bad that the person feels absolutely desperate, this is called a panic attack.

 Example:

A man with fear of heart attacks feels his heart "pounding" as soon as he thinks about heart attacks. This confirms to him his belief that something is wrong with his heart, making him even more frightened. The circle continues until he has a full blown panic attack.

Pounding heart and other anxiety symptoms - Confirms his fear that something is wrong with his heart - Fear of heart attack - when it has happened once, every time he thinks of heart problems, death etc the whole thing happens again, often becoming worse. This is how most illness phobias develop, whether it is heart phobia, fear of brain tumour, cancer or whatever.

Often symptoms make us frustrated or even guilty, sometimes we get terrified that the symptoms will return. Unfortunately all these feelings cause anxiety, making the original anxiety worse, so the person gets even more frightened, frustrated etc. Again a vicious circle has developed:

 Anxiety symptoms:

Fear of symptoms happening again

Frustration at not being able to stop them

Guilt at letting others down

Feeling foolish or useless